Self Care for Queers and Allies

Self Care for Queers and Allies

Ever since the heinous attacks in Orlando on June 12, I’ve wanted to reach out, but struggled to find the right words. I know that a lot of people are feeling this way, shocked and at a loss of what to do next. I want you to know that you are not alone, and people all...
Do Relationship Anarchists Commit?

Do Relationship Anarchists Commit?

Hi, I’m Kale. Today I want to clear up some misconceptions about relationship anarchy and commitment. I’ve had some people say to me ‘I couldn’t handle relationship anarchy, I need commitment!’ It seems that since many people associate relationship anarchy with chaos,...
The Tropes and Troubles With Unicorn Hunting

The Tropes and Troubles With Unicorn Hunting

Hi, I’m Kale. Today I’m going to talk about the problems with unicorn hunting. I’ll start with What the heck is unicorn hunting? Generally speaking, here is what it looks like: A couple, who are progressive and open minded, have typically been together a while and...
Facebook Relationship Statuses

Facebook Relationship Statuses

Full Transcript: Hi, I’m Kale! Today I want to talk about why I stopped using the relationship status feature on Facebook. When you practice non-traditional relationships, it’s not unusual to notice how the world around you is focused on the almighty...
Do Relationship Anarchists Go Through Breakups?

Do Relationship Anarchists Go Through Breakups?

Full Transcript: Hi, I’m Kale. Today I wanted to talk about when relationships transition. In traditional relationships, the trajectory is set – date, move in, get married, have kids. Or possibly at some point along that path, break up. Then meet new...