Let’s Stop Using the Term Success or Failure

Let’s Stop Using the Term Success or Failure

Full Transcript: Hi, I’m Kale. Today I want to talk about how we tend to look at a relationship as either a success or a failure, and how that idea can be a fallacy. Our society tends to have a very limited definition of success when it comes to a relationship –...
Online Dating as a Relationship Anarchist

Online Dating as a Relationship Anarchist

Full Transcript: Hi, I’m Kale! Today I want to talk about my experience online dating as a relationship anarchist. I started using online dating around the same time that I became non-monogamous, but before I was a relationship anarchist. I found it pretty easy to...
When We Feel Left Out

When We Feel Left Out

Hi, I’m Kale. Today I wanted to talk about the times when we feel left out. In non-monogamous relationships, there are going to be times when we feel left out. Like if someone we care about is spending extra time with a new person, or they are doing things together...
Facing Fear and Uncertainty

Facing Fear and Uncertainty

Full Transcript: Hi, I’m Kale. Today I wanted to talk about living with fear and uncertainty. In all relationships, there is some level of unpredictability. Everyone, regardless of relationship style, might at some point have to face the fear of being alone. For...
Coming Out as Non-Monogamous

Coming Out as Non-Monogamous

Hi, I’m Kale! Today I want to talk about coming out as a relationship anarchist or a non-monogamist. I know that I am in a very privileged position to be out so openly. I don’t think I could be much more out than to be on here making videos. I have been able to come...
Showing Love When Time Isn’t Limitless

Showing Love When Time Isn’t Limitless

Full Transcript Hi, I’m Kale. Today I wanted to talk about the ways we show love when we are super busy humans and we don’t have a ton of time. There are a lot traditional ways of showing someone that you care about them. One of the biggest ones is how much time you...