Relationship Milestones

Relationship Milestones

Full Transcript Hi, I’m Kale! And I’m Victor! Today we wanted to talk about relationship anarchist milestones; some of the ways we show meaning, significance, and importance in our relationships. In our last video we talked about what is the relationship escalator. Relationship anarchists are inherently off the escalator. And once you’re off the relationship…

The Relationship Escalator

The Relationship Escalator

Full Transcript Hi I’m Kale! And I’m Victor! Today we want to talk about the relationship escalator: what that is, and how it impacts our relationships. How would you describe the relationship escalator? I would say the relationship escalator is basically the way society thinks a relationship is ‘supposed’ to go, the default. Picture an…

Update and Intro

Update and Intro

Full Transcript Hi, I’m Kale. And this is Victor. Hi! This is my first video in awhile! I want to talk about what I’ve been up to for the past year, introduce you to Victor and talk about what we’re going to get up to. A little over a year ago, I started a pretty…

RA During the Holidays

RA During the Holidays

Full Transcript Hi, I’m Kale. With Christmas coming up, I thought I would talk a little about holidays and traditions, and being a relationship anarchist this time of year. The holidays are full of societal expectations and social pressures to be a certain way, and to do certain things. What does this look like for…

When We Feel Left Out

When We Feel Left Out

Hi, I’m Kale. Today I wanted to talk about the times when we feel left out. In non-monogamous relationships, there are going to be times when we feel left out. Like if someone we care about is spending extra time with a new person, or they are doing things together that sound really fun and…

Facing Fear and Uncertainty

Facing Fear and Uncertainty

Full Transcript: Hi, I’m Kale. Today I wanted to talk about living with fear and uncertainty. In all relationships, there is some level of unpredictability. Everyone, regardless of relationship style, might at some point have to face the fear of being alone. For monogamous couples, there are a lot of mononormative stories that help deal…