How to Communicate Without Rules

How to Communicate Without Rules

Full Transcript: Hi, I’m Kale. In my last video I talked about replacing rules with personal boundaries. Today I want to talk about how to communicate needs without using rules. Having rules is about controlling behaviour. Having clear boundaries is about taking...
Boundaries Not Rules

Boundaries Not Rules

Full Transcript: Hi, I’m Kale. Today I want to talk about relationship rules, and why I don’t have any, and boundaries, and why I think they are really important. Both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships can have rules. These rules can be either...
Relationship Anarchy and Social Hierarchy

Relationship Anarchy and Social Hierarchy

Full Transcript: Hi! I’m Kale. I am going to talk about how relationship anarchy differs from polyamory in how it levels out social hierarchies. Polyamory Polyamory is a relationship style where people have romantic relationships with more than one person. It is...
Why Relationship Anarchists Don’t Use Labels

Why Relationship Anarchists Don’t Use Labels

Full Transcript: Hi! I’m Kale. Today I’m going to talk about the labels we use in our relationships. Labels like boyfriend, husband, wife, or best friend. Why do we use labels? I’ve spent a lot of time reflecting on why I use labels in my life. For...
What is Relationship Anarchy?

What is Relationship Anarchy?

Full Transcript: Hi! I’m Kale. I’m going to talk about relationship anarchy today. Relationship anarchy (or RA for short) is a a way of practicing relationships. The idea was developed in Sweden in the early 2000s, and the term relationship anarchy is...